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May. 16th, 2026 09:28 pmD.O.P.-T.
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May. 13th, 2026 10:18 pmmusic: Walking Song by McGarrigle Sisters
May. 13th, 2026 06:28 pmThis is our song for me and MyGuy. When we met in 1977, we both lived right on Lake Mendota. We walked everywhere — fortunately, Madison is a lovely city for strolling.
Listen on YouTube or ( stream it here )
The cool thing is we actually did talk about all the things in these lyrics
Wouldn’t it be nice to walk together
Baring our souls while wearing out the leather
We could talk shop, harmonize a song
Wouldn’t it be nice to walk along
I’ll show you houses of architectural renown
Some are still standing, some have fallen down
Farm houses buried under Canada’s snow
Spanish villas on the Boulevards of Mexico
And I’ll learn to tell the ash from the oak
And if you don’t know I won’t make no joke
We’ll climb to the top to view the world from above
Or carve our initials in the trunk like teenagers in love
And when we get hungry we’ll stop to eat
Gotta think of our stomachs and rest our feet
If we get thirsty we’ll have a drink or two
In a mountain top bar with a mountain top view
And when we get tired we’ll stop to rest
And if you still want to talk you can bare your breast
If it’s Winter and cold we’ll take a rooming-house room
If it’s Summer and warm we’ll sleep under the moon
And we’ll talk about the sports we played
‘Bout the time you got busted or the time I got laid
We’ll talk blood and how we were bred
Talk about the folks both living and dead
This song like this walk I find hard to end
Be my lover or be my friend
In sneakers or boots or regulation shoes
Walking beside you I’ll never get the walking blues.
https://www.mcgarrigles.com/music/dancer-with-bruised-knees/walking-song
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May. 12th, 2026 11:58 pmWhen I took the dog out for attempted walkies (she went 2 houses, crossed the street, then returned), she made a beeline for a patch of ivy against the driveway fence. I was wearing sunglasses so it took me a moment to realize Mama Violet was lying there. (She's mostly mottled brown.) Nobody's face got torn off, in fact I didn't even hear the hiss. And later in the evening I saw her emerge from a slightly different place. I guess she has the measure of the dog.
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May. 11th, 2026 11:02 pmRunning on empty
May. 11th, 2026 05:56 amWork status: Major project due end of day today, still in process. I do this every month. I keep trying to get ahead, but then personal life crises intervene.
Home status: The house could stand to be picked up so it's not a demoralizing pit, but I don't wanna. Maybe on my days off this week? I've got commitments next week, unfortunately.
Creative project status: I've been writing snail mail stuff to my little cousins, and added my mom to that list. She said she might like a coloring book, so I'm going to make her some coloring pages.
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May. 10th, 2026 09:34 pmD.O.P.-T.
May. 9th, 2026 11:44 pmDay 75: Shadow Brightens
May. 9th, 2026 06:44 pmIt’s been three weeks since Shadow’s freedom day, after eight weeks of crate rest to ensure no stray heartworms clogged up his blood supply.
I’d hoped that on 15 April he’d spurt out the back door and explore every blade of grass and clump of dirt in our back yard. Instead, he’s deliberately lowering his DEFCON level in response to gentle encouragement and constant treats.
Recent achievements:
- Leaving his crate and curling up in his own bed at the foot of ours. (He loves his crate; we only close the door when we leave him in the house)
- Responding to my Shadow, come! by moving to me and sitting within easy reach of my treat-filled fingers.
- Walking on our nearby bike path, which offers humans of all ages, other dogs, bicycles, ebikes, emotos, skateboards, power scooters — in general a hell of a lot of stimulation.
- Walking briskly without stopping to sniff, attached to my powerchair (MyGuy transfers the connection from his lead to mine after we’ve left the house, because the ramp exit is super narrow.)
- Permitting me to scratch his butt while MyGuy fondles his ears.
- Meeting two of the gentler neighborhod dogs — just nose to nose; hasn’t done the full tip-to-tail sniff
- Very politely greeting visitors, sniffing their fingers and returning to his crate.
Slow but steady, in the correct direction.
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May. 8th, 2026 11:56 pmThere was volleyball in the park, but only one net and nobody was in matching clothing.
Mama Violet was absent all day but stuck her face out from under a bush in the driveway this evening, and when I put down food there, immediately started eating.
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May. 7th, 2026 09:38 pmD.O.P.-T.
May. 6th, 2026 11:57 pmI was putting laundry on the line when I noticed Prudence watching me. In fact she explored all around me, then when I put the laundry basket and the bag of pegs on the chair behind the garage, she withdrew from the area into the back porch room, and sat there licking her chops as I walked past. Alright then, put down some food, which she ate a bit of.
In the late afternoon, after it cooled down, I took a walk without the housemate, who was off communing with playing cards. Went past the House of Five Lions, where I disturbed the orange long-haired cat, who was lying on the pavement and annoyedly slipped under the gate into the driveway, where the black and white spotted longhaired cat was already lying. Then I noticed lying on the porch steps ... a raccoon. Not the biggest or the healthiest, but the ones that visit our porch set a high standard. It shuffled across the small front lawn as I watched. Another ginger cat, shorthaired and I think a local escapee rather than one of the household, followed it. So it jumped up into a wooden half-barrel beside the porch, and curled up.
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May. 5th, 2026 11:44 pmD.O.P.-T.
May. 4th, 2026 11:40 pmToday was cloudy and threatening but it didn't manage to rain despite my watering. The Chron forecaster says there will be showers tonight but they'll miss the South Bay.